Kabhi kabhi kuch rishtey jaane anjaane dil ke behayd kareeb ho jaate hain. Ham samajh nahi paate ki aisa kyun hota hai, lekin ye rishtey khaas hote hain. Kyunki ye wo rishtey hote hain jo dil se jude hote hain. In rishto se aapko khusi v milti hai to kafi hadd tak yeh rishtey aapke dard ki wajah bhi ban jaate hain. Jo log hamari zindagi me mayne rakhte hain unki khusiyan unke dard bhi hame apne se lagne lag jaate hain. Hamari ek choti si koshish agar unke chehre pe muskurahat le aaye to dil ko sukoon milta hai. Par ye rishtey bhi nibhane utne hi mushkil hote hain jitna ki koi aur rishta nibhana. Har rishta vishwaas ki neew pe tika hota hai jahan galatfehmiyo ki jagah nahi hoti. Koi bhi rishta ho, chot agar lage to bhale hi na toote par ek daraar jarur aa jati hai.
Ye duniya hi aisi hai jahan logon ne ye maan liya hai ki yahan har kaam har rishta sirf swarth ki wajah se juda hai aur isi soch ki wajah se kafi baar kai pure rishtey apna dam tod dete hain. Log sahi kehte hain insaan ki keemat unke saath rehne tak nahi pata chalti, jis din uska haath aapke haathon se chut jata hai to ye ehsaas hota hai ki anjaane me kuch aisa kho diya jo dobara haasil nahi kiya ja sakta. Apne kisi bhi rishtey me khamoshi se dooriyan na badahaye. Aapke dil aur jubaan pe ek hi baat honi chahiye. Agar aapko koi rishta bojh lagne laga hai to us rishtey ke dum ghutne tak ka wait na kare, ek hi baar khatm kar de, isse aapko bhi paresaani kam hogi or koi dusre bhi is paresani se bahar nikal payenge. Ignorance, avoidance jaisi chize apne relations me na laye. Ye sirf aapke relations ko slow poison ka hi dose de rahe hain.
Aap sabhi ko lag raha hoga ki main sirf rishtey todne ki baat hi kyun kar rahi hu. Rishtey nibhana har kisi ke bas ki baat nahi. Aadhe se jyada log to apni majburi or farz samajh ke nibha dete hain. Rishtey nibhane hain to dil se nibhao. Aapke dil me kya hai wo apno ko samjhao. Unse naaraj ho to unse lado par dooriyan na badhao. Ignorance and Avoidance is enough to kill any relationship…
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